The topic of appropriate touching is one that can be touched on, and touched upon, time and time again with any group of Christians who are trying to date. There are different backgrounds, life experiences, and opinions when it comes to dating, but we all want to find that special someone who will one day be our husband or wife…
The Bible says we are to love one another. This is one of the best-known commands of God, and admonitions like this are found throughout Scripture. We can also use these verses to define shacking up as sin, since that isn’t an example of God’s kind of love.
Have you ever wondered if what you do is appropriate when interacting with someone you met online? Don’t worry, there are a few things you can do to help make sure you aren’t crossing any boundaries.
Should Christian Dating Couples Kiss?
While we’re not going to tell you what to do, we would like to share a few things about Christian dating.
The Bible tells us that physical intimacy is a gift from God, but it’s also something that should only be shared between husband and wife. That means no kissing or touching before marriage and no sex until your wedding day.
There are no rules when it comes to kissing, but God wants us to love one another.
Romans 13:8 says, “Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another.”
So even if you’re dating someone and you don’t have a lot of time to talk, you can still show them that you care by kissing them.
If you’re dating someone who isn’t a believer, it can be hard for them to understand this, so you may have to explain your beliefs and why you follow them. But if they are serious about their faith, they will respect your beliefs and work with you on maintaining boundaries while still getting to know each other in a fun way!
Kissing is a part of the dating process, but there are rules to follow.
First, you should only kiss someone after you have been dating for a while. If you are just getting started, you should not be kissing anyone!
Second, make sure that the person you are dating wants to kiss before you do it. Do not pressure your partner into kissing them if they do not want to.
Thirdly, make sure that you are in a private place so no one can see what is happening between the two of you. This can be difficult if you are at school or work, but try your best!
Lastly, it is always important to respect each other’s boundaries and wishes when it comes to physical contact. If one person does not want to kiss or touch another person at any given time then it should be respected without question!
What Are Christian Couples Allowed to Do?
Touching is an important part of intimacy, and it can be fun to explore with a partner. But it’s important to keep in mind that there are things you shouldn’t do when you’re dating a Christian, and some things that you should do instead.
Here’s what you should do:
-Kissing is great! You can kiss your partner as much as you want. It’s even okay to kiss them on the lips!
-Holding hands is also fine—just make sure it’s not too tight of a grip (you don’t want to hurt your partner).
-Hugging is okay too, but try not to get too close; this will make them feel uncomfortable and pressured into something they’re not ready for yet. When hugging someone of the opposite sex, keep it at arm’s length or above their waistline; anything lower than that could be considered an inappropriate touch by many Christians.
Christian couples are allowed to kiss, hug, and cuddle. They can also touch each other’s hair, shoulders, and face. They should not touch each others’ private parts (including breasts, buttocks, or genitals) unless they are married.
Christian couples should avoid sexual intercourse before marriage because the Bible says that a husband and wife become “one flesh” when they have sexual relations.
How Should Christian Couples Date?
Christian dating is a lot like any other kind of dating. You have to find someone you are compatible with, and then you have to decide if you want to date them.
If you do, it’s time for some touching! But how much is appropriate?
The Bible tells us that we should not be sexually immoral (1 Corinthians 6:18). That means that no matter what your relationship status is right now, you should not be having sex outside of marriage.
However, if you’re married, you can touch each other as much as you want! In fact, touching your spouse is an important part of building intimacy in your marriage—and it’s encouraged by God (Proverbs 5).
Christian couples should date in a way that honors God and reflects their values.
Can Christian Dating Couples Travel Together?
When you’re dating a Christian, you should be able to travel together. You’ll want to make sure that your destination is appropriate for the two of you, but once you figure that out, it’s time to go!
Christian dating couples can travel together, but there are some rules of conduct that should be followed.
For example, it is not appropriate for a Christian dating couple to share a bed when traveling together. Instead, it is best for both individuals to have their own beds. If a Christian dating couple does not have enough money to afford hotel rooms, then they should consider sharing a room with another person or group of people if possible.
It is also important for Christian dating couples to refrain from any physical affection while in public places or around other people who might be offended by such displays of affection. This includes kissing on the lips or touching each other inappropriately in front of others who may find such behavior inappropriate and offensive.
It is important that Christian dating couples remember that their relationship should be kept between them and God—not everyone else!
Is Physical Attraction Important in Christian Dating?
Physical attraction is important in Christian dating because it’s one of the first things you notice about a person. But it shouldn’t be the only thing you notice.
Physical attraction is important because it helps you to see if your values align with someone’s. For example, if you are both attracted to people who are kind, loyal and hard-working, then that’s something that can help you determine whether or not someone has good character.
Physical attraction also helps you to feel comfortable around someone and have a good time together. If you don’t have any physical attraction for each other, then it can be hard for both parties to relax and enjoy each other’s company.
So yes, physical attraction is important in Christian dating! But it shouldn’t be taken as the only thing that matters when trying to figure out if someone is right for you. There are lots of other things that play into compatibility too!
Christian Dating Do’s and Don’ts
DO: Touch your date in a way that shows you care, but not in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable.
DON’T: Touch your date in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable.
DO: Talk about your feelings, but don’t make them feel pressured to have feelings for you at the same time.
DON’T: Talk about your feelings, then get angry when they don’t reciprocate right away.
DO: Be respectful of your partner’s boundaries and feelings.
DON’T: Never pressure your partner into doing something they don’t want to do. If they’re uncomfortable or scared, stop and talk about what’s going on!
Do: Always make sure that your partner is comfortable with the level of physical intimacy you’re experiencing.
DON’T: Don’t look up your date’s social media and start stalking them.
DO: Talk about how much physical affection you enjoy, and how much of it you like to engage in.
DON’T: Do not text them all the time, even if you’re having fun together.
DON’T: Do not send pictures of yourself when you’re drunk or high.
DON’T: Do not talk about exes with your new love interest—it’s just weird and gross to do this, and it makes you look like a narcissist who doesn’t respect boundaries or consider others’ feelings.
DON’T: Don’t assume that because someone is dating another person of the same sex means they’re gay or bisexual—you might be wrong!
DO: make sure you’re on the same page in terms of what you want from the relationship. If you’re not, it’s going to become a problem later.
DON’T: assume that because she is Christian, she’s automatically looking for a serious relationship. That doesn’t mean she wants to marry you right away either!
DON’T: talk badly about other girls or your exes when dating someone new. You never know who they’ve been with before and what they’re capable of doing if they find out you’re talking trash behind their backs!
DO: show her that you are interested by showing up for dates on time and being prepared with the things she likes (like snacks). A little effort goes a long way.
There is a big difference between inappropriate and appropriate touching. We would like to address this topic because we are asked about it so much in our teenage group discussion forums. When you spend your life waiting for God’s plan for you, it can be difficult at times to live with yourself and your friends as a single teenager. It is so important to understand the boundaries in the area of physical affection.
The Bible clearly and consistently condemns adultery, homosexuality, sexual promiscuity, and other flagrant sins of the flesh. For the single Christian, it is very important to respect God’s boundaries by knowing what is appropriate physical contact.
We’re all looking for love, right? We’re looking for that person that we can spend the rest of our lives with. Whether you’re a single Christian searching out your soul-mate or you’re in a marriage and want to show your spouse more love, I’ve got some ideas for you. When it comes to showing someone how much you care, physical contact is a great way to do it!